SOO, as you guys know.. ive been dealing with a CAG. And its sad because she's harrassing alot of people... i think she has psychological problems...So im going to use her as an example to all girls who deal with a CAG on a daily basis...
If she texts you:: D0N'T TEXT HER BACK !!
This is exactly what she wants you to do. And shes going to use these texts against you. She is going to show her friends like: "look, this lil girl keeps texting me asking me about (insert name here)"
If you get a message about some mess, whether its from her, her friends or family: D0N'T MESSAGE HER BACK !!
Well, you can message back.. but don'g start cussing and actin a fool. If its rude say "Im sorry you feel like that" and let that be it. You do not have to talk to them.
It really sad and pathetic that there are girls like this in the world.. but its just another case of AW (Angry Woman) or ABF (Angry Black Female).
I've been talking to this girl who is going thru HELL with her own CAG and it's really starting to upset her. Her CAG texts her, calls her, messages her on FB, and gets other people to do the same... and i think its soo sad. I feel sorry for this girl, but i feel even more sad for her CAG.. the fact that she does all of this shows that she cares WAY to much... even when she says that she doesn't which brings me to another point:
Even when your CAG says she doesn't care about you.. she does.
If she didn't care about you, she wouldn't be going thru all of this just to bother you. It's sad and pathetic.
If your a CAG cut it out !!
you look sad and pathetic. You care more about the person who are harrasing than your own life. Even tho you think your friends are laughing with you, they are laughing at you.. they think your crazy too !!
This is what my CAG wrote about me.. yess another status:
Amber Pugh:: W0W THiS GiRl iS S0 0BSSESD WiT ME i TH0UGHT iT WAS BRANDD0N BUT iTS ME...l0l SHE iS AlWAYS C0NCERND WiT WAT iM D0iN 0R WAT Mi STATUS SAY...W0W M0RGAN GET A liFE...BUT 0N A SAD N0TE...BRANDD0N iS G0NE =[
I don't know about you guys... but this is upsetting... not because she's talking about me, cuz i could care less... but because she feels the need to do this in the first place. I guess she thinks that she's the reason im doing all of this.. but i'll let you know the reason i went thru this whole 3 day blogg spree about the situation:
I want people who are going thru this situation to know that they are not alone. there are CAG's every where. Some are going thru it way worst than me, and some aren't having it bad at all. The thing is, most of these girls are so upset, and crying to their friends about it. But me, I laugh at it because I see thru it. And you should too. The CAG is just insecure, and trying to use you to make herself feel better.
So DONT give in !! you are better than her, and are probably already over the guy who she is obsessed with. You are beautiful and intelligent, and don't let this low-life interfere with anything!!
Hope I helped someone.